Expectation for n0s war has been high, but it turned out to be "low"

I'll let you see for yourself:
http://www.utnosclan.com/ut1024/index.htm

See their number of members? I don't even wanna count how many they have but it must be over 50. Leaders are not even included in the member list, imagine. Keep that in mind for later.

So 5 BLS showed up at the war. Me, Kr0n, Ciro, Meli and Manu.
We were ready for some 5vs5 and let's not forget, BLS has STILL been unbeatable in North America when it's 5vs5.
For 1 hour, n0s has been missing some players. So Ciro and Kr0n left.
Out of nowhere, they suggested a 3vs3 so why not?
We were in their server, so they had control. It's their territory, their own configuration, mutator, gamespeed, etc. We agreed. They chose what it seems to be a BLS's weak point in North America ---> ThornV8 map. Mutator = Respawning with shock and sniper full ammo.
The whole n0s was sniping and it was so annoying. We hardly could even cap, we almost capped 3 more flags but we only did one cap (by myself) with good cover from Meli and I think Manu was positioning himself to protect me from sniper bullets. They were lucky to save/steal away 3 caps from us.
Well, we lost. Why not accepting a 3vs3 lost in a map we dislike (and as the other clan's favorite map) in their own server?
Then it was time for BLS map right after. Less Bleak, of course. Two quick caps and they're starting to leave. Later, one of them came back and said sorry because he got disconnected. Well we're sorry ourselves too but it's part of the war (just like when my UT crashed in LB war which led them to 1 and only cap for LB in the war). A clan is responsible to bring a back up player just in case such thing happen. With over 50 members against BLS which only has less than 20 members, there has to be no excuse. We consider it a victory by forfeit. After having 1 hour of patience to make a 5vs5 war, we gotta take it. Or else I could have disconnected myself from the first game to cancel that lost. We play with honor!